People constantly debate, argue and discuss change. Things change, people change, surroundings change but people don't. Unless you say, setting impossibly high goals and obsessing over them for lets say 3 days and then just forgetting them after that, THAT'S NOT CHANGE. And when you go into that realm of depression trying to 'change' yourself, you only make people that love you hurt and angry. " Really Jo, its for the better." Sorry to burst your bubble but no. If making people that love you angry 'for the better', then I don't know whats happening to the world. Yeah, I'll always love you and always did but sometimes you annoy me like hell and I wished you didn't change yourself for others. Change happens if God arranges it. Its faith. Its not force, its faith. I miss you. Well, I miss the old you. The person that I could actually trust above everyone else. I don't think I can give you that responsibility anymore. I'm sorry if I hurt you by saying this.